It’s been a while since I last wrote something in my blog. The postings that you’ve seen for the past few weeks, were written weeks ago.

Well..reason being, I was feeling down recently due to a personal issue. It was a mess which I’ve created myself… and I must say, I went quite deep this time. I put too much hope too soon, and got hurt pretty badly. So it took me a while to get back to my former self. I’m fine now, so not to worry.

A lot of my friends have been very patient and nice to me. They talked to me, comforted me, gave me encouragements and spent a lot of time just to listen to me. Thanks to all of you who have been there for me. You know who you are.

Anyway, the issue is not really as bad as I thought it is. Yes, it’s all over now, but the outcome is better than I expected it to be…so it’s not all that bad. Also from this incident, I realized that there really are a lot of good and true friends around me who care about me. I’m really a very fortunate person

As one of my friends told me….life is short and unpredictable (he lost a good friend few years ago…it was very sudden), so we should move on with our life and be nice to ourselves. Life tends to throw us down every now and then, and it is up to us whether to get back up or not. It’s okay to just sit there, whine, complain and cry…. but every second we spend sitting there, will be gone forever. So don’t take too long to get back up because there are still a lot of things in life that we can do and many of our dreams yet to be fulfilled.

So, learn to love yourself. Be nice to yourself. And you’ll surely notice a difference in your life. I know, because I’m doing that right now.

This is a message to myself, and everyone out there.