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	<title>Comments on: Relationship is not 1-sided</title>
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	<description>Dare to dream !</description>
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		<title>By: Alvin Lim</title>
		<link>http://blog.alvinlim.info/2009/12/04/relationship-is-not-1-sided/comment-page-1/#comment-6671</link>
		<dc:creator>Alvin Lim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 06:50:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-6667&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;@gapnap&lt;/a&gt; 
Hmm, maybe that&#039;s the link. Not too sure. hahha, having short term memory lost nowadays.

i think it depends on the reason why F needed money. If F has been helping E so much in the past, and if he really needs the money for something important, then E should try to help out. 

Actually on borrowing money from others, it can be quite a difficult decision to make. On one hand, you want to help esp if it&#039;s your loved one. But on the other hand, helping the person is not a long term solution if the person is not going to learn. Guess...another topic for another day. haha</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-6667" rel="nofollow">@gapnap</a><br />
Hmm, maybe that&#8217;s the link. Not too sure. hahha, having short term memory lost nowadays.</p>
<p>i think it depends on the reason why F needed money. If F has been helping E so much in the past, and if he really needs the money for something important, then E should try to help out. </p>
<p>Actually on borrowing money from others, it can be quite a difficult decision to make. On one hand, you want to help esp if it&#8217;s your loved one. But on the other hand, helping the person is not a long term solution if the person is not going to learn. Guess&#8230;another topic for another day. haha</p>
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		<title>By: gapnap</title>
		<link>http://blog.alvinlim.info/2009/12/04/relationship-is-not-1-sided/comment-page-1/#comment-6667</link>
		<dc:creator>gapnap</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 16:03:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>this one is it ? 

http://gapnap.com/2009/11/05/canmoneybuyfriendship/

thanks for the link :P

Hmmm..i get what you are trying to say ...i agree that relationship should be 2 sided. But i think different sides will have different side of the story . What if F needed money , and asked from E , E refuse and F was the one who yelled at E ?
.-= gapnap&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://gapnap.com/2009/12/03/have-you-visited-the-pimp-ed-up-music-master/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Have you visited the pimp-ed up Music Master ?&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>this one is it ? </p>
<p><a href="http://gapnap.com/2009/11/05/canmoneybuyfriendship/" rel="nofollow">http://gapnap.com/2009/11/05/canmoneybuyfriendship/</a></p>
<p>thanks for the link <img src='http://blog.alvinlim.info/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Hmmm..i get what you are trying to say &#8230;i agree that relationship should be 2 sided. But i think different sides will have different side of the story . What if F needed money , and asked from E , E refuse and F was the one who yelled at E ?<br />
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