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Sometimes, shit happens

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Sometimes, things won’t go your way. Yes, shit does happen….and for some unfortunate folks, shit happens pretty often too. And it’s perfectly fine for it to happen. Because sometimes, no matter how well-planned you are, things just won’t work out. Call it bad luck but that is just the way it is.

True, you can always have plan B, plan C, D, X, Y, Z. But all those backup plans are there to minimize the damages done when shit happens. For example, your boss screwed up and decided to retrench 20 people in the company and you’re 1 of them. Is it within your control? Hmm, not really. But can you have a backup plan before it happens? Definitely! One of your backup plans could be having an emergency fund to help support your expenses when you’re jobless, or you can have a backup plan to sell your car in order to raise some fund.

However, despite all the backup plans, it doesn’t remove the fact that shit has happened. What’s next then? Be honest about it. Don’t give any excuses and don’t attempt to hide it. If someone asks you what has happened, just admit that shit happened even though not everyone will buy into that “shit happens” excuse. But that’s their choice. For you, being honest is the best you could do.

Well, there’s actually 1 more thing that you should know. That is… our society does not like people who screwed up, or people who have been in a “shit happens” situation. That is why entrepreneurs who have failed in their businesses find it hard to land a job after their businesses closed down. However, our society despises cheaters even more than people who experienced “shit happens” situations. So, in the end, the decision is still yours – be honest about the entire situation, or try to cheat your way through it.

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Written by Alvin Lim

October 23rd, 2009 at 10:00 am

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  1. so Alvin . What happened to you lately ? any shit happened yet ?

    You know , i LOL when i saw “shit happens” ..its like i wouldn’t expect your professional blog to put “shit” as a title ..

    Shit happens . We all shit everyday . If shit doesn’t happen everyday , eat more papayas
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    gapnap

    23 Oct 09 at 2:20 pm

  2. Dude, Life is like diarrhea, we suffer quietly in some corner till the shit comes out.

    And just like when the shit is out, we wipe our ass, pull up our pants and walk with pride.

    There’s always shit in life. Leave it behind and always look towards the future! Thats why our eyes are in the front of our head!

    stephenstreets

    23 Oct 09 at 5:33 pm

  3. @gapnap
    Hmm, shit does happen eh? I wrote a comment here, submitted and something went wrong. LOL. And the comment disappeared. :P

    Anyway, something else DID happen this year in my career and people did ask me about it – all I could say was shit happened.

    @stephenstreets
    Well, some people don’t ‘suffer quietly’. Hahhaha.

    But yeah, shit happens in life. We just need to wipe our ass and move on with life. :)

    Alvin Lim

    23 Oct 09 at 8:40 pm

  4. When shit happens, we can
    1. Sweep it up
    2. Cover it up with leaves
    3. Sit down and stare at the poo
    4. Analyze its contents
    5. Shit some more
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    The Envoy

    24 Oct 09 at 1:37 pm

  5. @The Envoy
    Or recycle it as fertilizer :P

    Alvin Lim

    24 Oct 09 at 6:18 pm

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