mmm i think there should b a solution. u can always get a job u like and at the same time be with ur family. earning money is another thing. for me, earning money is important, but there are many things that money can never buy back. if u r good, money can be earned anywhere.

mm country? wait till u work in other countries i think malaysia is still quite okay. not the best but definitely not the worst. i’m in china now, and i am very very grateful i am born in malaysia and not china.

regarding your this post…mm…is so true. I actually have confusing in making that choice which i still have yet to make the decision.

by choosing 1st option, u earn much money and with money many impossible becomes possible. i mean many but not all ok.what if the 2nd option, u stayed back but didnt like the job? staying back with your love one doesnt mean you will be happy about it when you are going through difficulties in your job and other possible happenings.

I know our country has a lot of opportunities but are we taking into account on all general stuffs like the working environment, mentality, human rights, the working law?

i am going so deep now..LOL!
you are right that in the end of the day, it still comes back to yourself. It is about how could one stand or think on a situation & react.
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I think at the end of the day, depends on individual. Distance relationship is never easy to maintain. But not impossible. Perhaps people like me are not so suited for such long distance stuff

At least you still have the 5 times..not too bad its like 2 months once.

@Damien Tan
We are really fortunate now that we are spoilt for choices. And of course, this post doesn’t really apply to those w/o choices. For them, there will only be 1 choice which is more feasible than the rest – as you said, do or die.

But if you do have choices like most of us do in this country, it’s up to you which one is more important to you. I think every parent would want their kids to do well and don’t mind sending them off half a world away….even though they are sad to do so – as most never come back after that. The decision should rest solely on the child himself…whether to go or to stay with the family….. or if they’ve went there……whether to come back and take care of the loved ones.

@gapnap
Same for me! Even if our country is plagued with a lot of controversies, i really think there are still a lot of opportunities around.

Make money in Malaysia .
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If you are single, its easier to decide because the lineage stops at you. But if you are married, you’ll be stuck with trying to balance between giving your kids a fair future and being there for your parents. Sometimes you can’t have both without some sacrifice involved, usually money for air travel. Life’s like that.